The astral sign of Taurus, ruled by the planet Venus – the lover, and the birth date ruler Moon – the intuitive, with birth stone of Emerald
To do things right, it has to be done in the most direct and honest way possible. The only way to successfully make a change in the world is to tell it as it is. People may not like the approach you have when dealing with people or things, as the bluntness can be quite painful sometimes, but make no mistake, you never ever set out to do something or say something with aim at anyone or anything. You just go by the belief that the way to do it right and succeed in it, is to be candid with the situation at hand.
Yes it would not hurt to be a bit more observant to other people’s emotional responses, or merely the fact that the truth can be very painful and you should sometimes mind your delivery. But at least some people see it as a very efficient way of knowing where they stand with you, as there will be no hidden agendas, and with that said, they trust you, trust your organizational skills and your logical mind and always strive to rely on you.
When you need to uphold yourself and remove yourself from the situation you do grow in tendencies to vent to someone, and that gossip can come back and bite you in the ass if you are not careful. Rather inherit the habit of understanding people are very different, and will always have different opinions of you and your delivery, and some will demand a softer approach.
Later on in life you do tend to introvert a bit more and pay more attention to your emotional needs and security, which awakens the sensibility to other people’s emotional needs as well. I guess I could say things come full circle and you begin to understand the importance of different ways of delivering the facts.
You are a team player, do not get me wrong, and you are an amazing leading role to the team, but at your best you will most likely every time be working alone. The reason for it is your impeccable perfectionism, which can get in the way of your process if you need to explain and keep correcting the work of others. And even if project is larger than life your fantastic organizational skills have you covered.
Although in general you are very outspoken and brutally honest sort of speak, in relationship you prefer to stay on top of your game, not allowing your partner to get to the soft spot. That may come across as controlling and the give and take relationship can become quite one sided, meaning you will want to appear strong and keep giving and giving but expecting nothing in return, which in the long run can be very degrading for your relationship. You need to learn the balance in relationship and learn to trust the person you choose for your partner, as they are there to improve and support your nature not observe and take.
You tend to run away from yourself a lot, which includes the tendency to promote healthy lifestyle. You prefer to dig yourself in work and just keep pushing along the way. But the mind and body are not really durable in that way you need to find a healthy balance in diet that will sustain your lifestyle and healthy exercise routine on daily basis if possible to keep body in shape, but what is most important is learn to unplug the work and organize some much needed weeks or at least weekends of pure relaxing, no work, environment where you can absolutely detach from your constant mind activity and just enjoy the surroundings.
Your over-active brain and fantastic organizational skills are a great foundation for careers in medicine or any scientific field where you can indulge in enormous amount of information. But careers in media or advertising would also stimulate your overactive mind and satisfy your very original way of thinking along with the gift of the insight, which makes for a great target marketing.
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Judy Nyssa Tanko