The astral sign of Pisces, ruled by the planet Neptune – the speculator, and the birth date ruler Uranus – the visionary, with birth stone of Aquamarine
Your word holds just as much value as anyone else’s so do not hold yourself back thinking it does not matter. After all nobody can tell you how you feel, you are the only one who can tell that. Express yourself without holding back, as it is the only way people will ever understand what you are all about. Once you overcome that obstacle, you will have a much greater opportunity to connect to people.
In general you do tend to kind of stay in the shadows and don’t really like to mingle with people. You find yourself very self-sufficient and are not at all bothered by living your life in that manner, meaning alone and detached from the world. In fact you find it easier. But it however does not mean that you are totally antisocial, is just well a lot easier to chase after success if on your own rather than minding other people’s feelings entire time.
Bottom line of your existence is that you are for sure not shy or incompetent for company. It is just much more productive to avoid any potential conflicts or confrontations. Following own guidelines is much simpler and promises much greater success. Your mind just has greater potential when working challenged by own concepts and free from any boundaries from outside distractions.
The love of creativity flushing in solitude can also have quite a downside to it. As depriving self of personal relationships can also create a detachment from reality and with that all the joys they bring, especially as you love to share your accomplishments with people, even though you prefer your isolation. You do have great empathy for people, so why not find balance in some kind of personal relationship compromise and allow people to share your potential with you, and maybe influence people with your visions and inspire them with your drive and ideas.
You love your solitude, it comes from the point of needing space, and you are no different in relationships. You do not like being controlled or suffocated with people. You will find you pair yourself best with free-spirited people who are very self-sufficient just like you, your relationship is definitely one of trust and deep connection, a lasting love that fulfills you.
You will naturally be chasing after healthy diet, as you are not very prone to indulge extremes. Exercise would do you good, some relaxing time with group of people that take your mind off of your normal mental routine. But do make sure you still are plenty with yourself in nature preferably, as fresh air does help your mind, as busy as it can get, relax. So as much as some socializing is great for you, and you should squeeze yourself into some of the joint events, you do need to be alone with yourself and try and relax your mind as well.
Given your love for solitude, your own business especially working from home office will be best option for you, in a field as computer programmer or online marketing. But you are not totally antisocial and do well in crowds if you can follow your own limitations and schedules, which would also make you fit well in psychology, teaching or research. But you would also fit well in music or art.
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Judy Nyssa Tanko