The astral sign of Capricorn, ruled by the planet Saturn-the teacher, and the birth date ruler Moon-the intuitive, with birth stone of Garnet
You have a gift in helping others finding their dreams and turning them into reality. Along your path you need to learn compassion and sensitivity, as without it you can not understand the weaknesses of others. And as you discover the gift for recognizing it, you have a drive to right the wrongs and fight injustice.
That drive to fight injustice is strong and overwhelming at times. As much as you want to right the wrongs of the entire world, you have to learn that change starts in you, and the little things you change today will mark the changes of bigger picture tomorrow. When a situation gets so hard you can not do anything to change it anymore, it means you have done all you can, and all you can do is to just trust that it was enough and rest will sort self out. So learn to let go.
You are not powerless to change the world, you just need to learn to start at the beginning, and allow the rest to take its course. And the passion for helping others will always drive you from one to another to right the bits and pieces and those little changes are the ones that dictate the bigger ones. You just need to learn that is the process of keeping energy flowing.
The one thing you can not change in the world is someone else’s mind. And trying to control and impact that change is not going to show results until you learn to move the crucial pieces you need to move. And the way to do so is to learn to give others benefit of the doubt, as the only way people can fulfil your expectations is if you guide them to the desired destination and than believe they will do the right thing.
You are very intelligent and a great decision maker, you always strive to be fair in your decisions. Although there is a bit of a confusion arising from the felling of being compelled to do the right thing in life for everyone, which can easily lead them to believing they are responsible for everyone and everything that happens around them. That can sometimes lead to a bit of an ego boost and you tend to start believing your word is the law.
As you can drown in your belief that the world is your responsibility, it is important for you to listen to people around you as well. There are opinions of people that matter to you, but you need to learn to listen and respect their point of views as well. As for some, your forceful way of imposing your opinion is considered offensive, and it is not for you to feel attacked by that manner, but to use your opened mind and allow the opinion of others to whey on your perception of opinions. After all remember that everyone is entitled to have a difference of opinion.
Over time you develop a very strong inner life, with which you set high expectations to people around you and even higher for your own life. But you take it as a challenge to live up to those standards and hopefully even rise up to it.
With that judgmental approach and law making tendencies you can become quite dominating and stubborn, by others perceived as superior even. So in a way it is very important for you to keep looking for balance in learning the life’s lessons. The more you learn to balance self the more you come across as flexible and approachable. Even fair.
Although relating to people comes quite natural to you, it is important for you to find a partner who can stimulate your mind and inspire creativity in you. It does take you time to open up emotionally, and well because of that tendency to help everyone you do tend to take on to much of a responsibility on you. So as you learn to sit back a bit and let partner take the lead, and of course as you learn to trust and allow them to be there for you, you are extremely loyal and devoted.
Be careful not to wear yourself out from caring for others too much. You need to take good care of your own physical and emotional body. With diet just be careful not to go into excessive use of anything, as long as you keep it nice and balanced you are ok. Gentle exercise and mild diverse diet with some vitamins is a healthy balanced lifestyle plan for you. No overreacting.
You are a born helper, so I definitely see you in any career where you can give yourself to help others. You are a great teacher or caregiver, as you can connect perfectly to kids and apply knowledge with a very sensitive direction. You would excel in counselling or psychology as you have a way to guide and direct people. The stronger of you and the more balanced will find your fighting justice very relevant in fields of politics or social work, or even law.
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Judy Nyssa Tanko