The astral sign of Aquarius, ruled by the planet Uranus-the visionary, and the birth date ruler Venus – the lover, with birth stone of Amethyst
Put yourself first, make sure your needs are taken care of before you tend to address other people’s needs. As you tend to throw yourself at people to help, help, help, thinking you will be liked and respected if you make sure you accommodate their needs first.
You re-create yourself around the patterns of making other people your number one priority, and you are doing a great job, as all they see is enthusiastic personality, generous in nature, accommodating everyone. But the down side to it is, there are those you do not seem to be able to come through and they annoy you for that, so you tend to speak negative behind their back, in order to gain popularity of the rest. But be careful, that just might bite you in the ass some day.
Positive feedback and approval of others matters much to you. And it is a great value. But make sure you don’t treat your life always as a one way street as you are doing with putting others before you. As that tendency may have a very emotionally damaging consequences. You can get emotionally hurt in the process, when you see things aren’t going your way, knowing you are going above and beyond with your generosity.
You love life, you treat it as your ultimate project. And things just have to go your way. So balance your generosity to tending for yourself as well as others, but just put your needs first at times. That way when things don’t go as planned, at least you are emotionally satisfied with where you stand in the picture, and that allows you to not feel insecure about disappointments on the way.
Being a people pleaser may also have a very heavy tool on yourself. Not putting enough focus on yourself causes you to not always acknowledge your emotions, but constantly caring for others, and forgetting about self, you can as well loose touch with your emotions, even worse loose your way. And loosing your way can cause you to act inappropriately and erratically.
You are very flexible, you always find your way around situations that are a mystery to you. You know your way around people, and you love living this life, and you make every effort to make life good for you. You like popularity, sometimes only for the sake of popularity itself, but never for no reason. As people do give you respect for actions you take and impress in good and bad times, just make sure you do not take that respect for granted. There is a charm to earning it.
You like to jump from a relationship to a relationship in a search for greater romance, greater passion, greater excitement, until you find that what you are looking for. Eventually when you do find that special person that is as good at your game as you like to think you are, you are extremely loyal and committed.
Keep your mind away from obsessing with your appearance, as understandable as it is that you want to look good in your popularity contest, you still need to prioritize health over looks, which is most likely than not already in place anyways as you tend to be blessed with it. Stick to a healthy diet and schedule, don’t overreact with extreme regimens. Regular and moderate exercise is a good mid-way to go for you as well, and I say it with a recommendation, unless you take sports as your lifestyle and participate in a competitive sports – which some of you are so drawn to. Focus on your emotions, your inner self more, as with healthy mind the body follows example. Practice positive affirmations and lift your spirit up.
You are a people person, so taking that into consideration, you would be successful in areas of public relations, entertainment, media or public speaking. There is also a potential in areas of teaching or research, or even sports – as you are attracted to extreme competitive sports.
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Judy Nyssa Tanko
Psychic Nyssa is a Psychic Clairvoyant. She’s been aware of her gift since she was 6. As you go into a reading she never knows what information is going to come forth, once you ask a question the flow starts happening and she will tell you all she sees, hears, senses etc. Read more about Psychic Nyssa & Book her for a Reading.